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A Guide to Customizing the Perfect Engagement Ring

April 14th, 2025

When it comes to one of life’s biggest questions—“Will you marry me?”—there’s something undeniably special about proposing with a ring that’s been thoughtfully customized. A custom engagement ring isn’t just jewelry. It’s a love story set in stone.

At W. Kodak Jewelers, we specialize in helping couples create engagement rings that are as unique as their relationship. Whether you’re starting from scratch or want to add a personal touch to a classic design, our expert team is here to guide you every step of the way.

Here’s how the custom ring process works—and why it might be the perfect choice for you.


Step 1: Find Your Inspiration

Your custom ring journey starts with vision. Maybe it’s a Pinterest board filled with ideas, a vintage ring passed down through your family, or simply a particular vibe you want the ring to give off. Our team will sit down with you to understand your inspiration, style preferences, and must-haves.

Tip: Bring reference images, sketches, or even notes about what your partner loves—every detail helps us bring your vision to life.


Step 2: Choose the Setting

The setting is the foundation of your ring’s design—it frames the stone and defines the overall style. From timeless solitaires and romantic halos to vintage-inspired details or modern minimalism, there are endless options to explore.

We’ll help you try on a range of styles and explain the benefits of each. Do they wear rings every day? Do they love bold or delicate jewelry? We consider lifestyle and comfort just as much as looks.


Step 3: Select the Stone

Now for the sparkle. Whether you’re going with a traditional diamond or exploring alternative stones like sapphires, emeralds, or lab-grown diamonds, we’ll guide you through the 4Cs—cut, color, clarity, and carat—and help you find the perfect balance of beauty and budget.

We source exceptional stones, and you’ll get to handpick the one that feels right for your story.


Step 4: Personal Touches

This is where your ring truly becomes one of a kind. Want a hidden birthstone underneath the setting? A special engraving? A diamond-encrusted band? We’ll walk you through every detail and customize the design until it’s exactly what you imagined.

You’ll also get to review a 3D rendering or wax model of the ring before final production—so you can see the design come to life before it's even crafted.


Step 5: Let the Magic Happen

Once every detail is finalized, our jewelers begin crafting the ring. The process usually takes a few weeks—but trust us, it’s worth the wait. Each ring is made with precision, care, and craftsmanship that honors your love story.

When the finished piece is ready, we’ll invite you in for a final reveal. (Yes, tissues may be required.)


Why Go Custom?

  • It reflects your love story

  • You control every detail

  • It’s meaningful, not mass-produced

  • It becomes an heirloom from day one


Start Your Custom Ring Journey Today

If you're ready to create a ring that captures your love in every detail, our team at W. Kodak Jewelers is here to help. Schedule a private appointment at our Hoboken or Boca Raton location and let’s bring your dream ring to life—together.